WACKY OR CHEERFUL?

 There's a difference between my mother and father's side of the family. I don't know whether its the culture difference between negeri sembilan and selangor or is it just us. I'm more closed with cousins from moms side probably because we had a lot of family gatherings and I once heard that negeri sembilan's culture that likes to have family gathering even for little events. Its proven when I asked most of my friends which are originally from negeri sembilan and yeah it seems that we're not the ones with the whole gather thing.

Speaking of wacky and cheerful, I seriously don't know how to describe these pictures below. Wacky, cheerful, cool? hmm...

I admit I'm quite of a cam whore in the family. I think all of us are. but we all like to make weird poses instead of the 'skema' look and smile. Something like making the picture look alive, u know what I mean. 

oh, forgot to state that these pictures are from 3rd and 4th day of raya

what I wore
satin shawl: bought at some place in shah alam
shirt: parkson for rm10
pants:  old collection
cardi: old collection
 I guess this style didn't really work on me

my mom and cheerful aunties

is acu  trying the 'loser' or tongkat ali pose?confuse hehe

they got duit raya!!

awww~

taken at kuala pilah. The lake back there always get our attention

at tok anjang's(my late grandma's brother) place. u see even they're super cheerful

the face that we suppose to promote istana menanti

AND THE LIST KEEPS GOING~

at masjid kariah, paroi ,seremban right after  we performed maghrib prayers

pheww....thats a lot of pictures ay... I love my family.always stick together facing obstacles in life. lets hope we remain this bond we built for generations to come. ok ayat kebanyakan aku da guna. lost of words now.

It's EID!!!

hey I'm back!!!enjoying eid this year guys? for me it was wholesome. Many things happen apart from the mouth watering foods and visiting families around my village. firstly the house in rembau was vacant since our grandparents passed away a couple of years ago when I was still in high school. So we rarely sleep there instead most of the time we would gathered at my aunt's place at bangi. but since it's a must to spent a few nights there so usually the first thing we did was CLEANING. This is definitely vital cause if not u just have to bare with the dust, termites ( just found out their new hiding place) and the unclean areas. I'm totally cool with the cleaning and to bare my sneezeness sensitive nose that keeps on being stuffy while doing the cleaning. but it's quite not cool when the family is getting bigger and we ran out of space to sleep that forces us to build up a partition from my uncle's old office furniture. Secondly, a little trouble with the sharing toilet and bath room. Well u know how kampung style houses where they set apart toilets and bathe rooms,then we have to take turns to use them cause generally there's 40++ here so we have to tolerate. The funny thing is,from my mother's side of the family, we kinda have that food digestion where every time we consume a large meal, then in a few minutes u just wanna 'go'. This includes me (haha ok so I just revealed my greatest secret). so then we have to queue up while screaming " hurry up in there!!". I seriously don't remember how could I survive back then. Did I became too fussy now? either way it's just a once a year situation that we all have to go through. Because for us it doesn't feel like eid if we celebrated it at bangi. We prefer the village fresh air and its surroundings and also its our way to preserve the house.

Enough with the details. Pictures will represent how gleefully we had for eid. I only had one baju kurung and the rest are mostly 'hand me downs' from cousins and my mom's vintage days clothes. I also manage to find tops that still fits even though I wore it during my middle school days. pretty cool huh? I'd be lying if I said that I didn't buy any new clothes. I do but anything that I purchased above rm50 will be considered expensive. I prefer look gorgeous in a modest way.(ok ayat macam bajet bgus sikit haha)

the only baju kurung for raya
satin shawl: bought at jalan TAR for rm15
baju kurung: custom made

basically our house is just beside a school. Separated by the fence is the school field

they would called this pose as " kau cilako!!" or in english "you bastard" . there's a story behind it hahaha

my pak lang with the weird pose

commercializing perhaps?

the siblings

purple theme :)

for the second day this is what I wore:
shawl: bought at kuantan for rm 8
maxi skirt: custom made from dalzbutton craft
top:  my old collection since 2003
belt: from danau kota
bag: a gift from dad where he bought it some place in new york (will be using it regularly)

estrella?

at my late grandma's pet son's house

I wish to upload more but the internet is kinda busy so I think I'll stop for now. hope more to come soon!!!

Missing Ramadan with the family

OMG!!! I can't believe it's nearly the end of ramadhan. I'm missing every moment of it. Having the opportunity to spend the whole fasting month with my family is truly something worthwhile. I mean its been years since I last fast with the family. What I recalled last time was when I was in secondary school before I pursue to boarding school, matriculation and college life. but I'm pretty sure some of you guys experienced longer than me (boarding school since form 1). So u guys must be really grateful right..I know I do. ok I made a list bout the best things of ramadhan at home compared to ramadhan during semester period:


1)  SAVE MONEY: yeah sure you do!!u know why?all u have to do is cook your favorite dish. No need to go to bazaar, just go to 'pasar'. I've alreaday made calculations and yet cooking is way money saving than buying at bazaar. This doesn't really mean that I don't go to bazar, I do but rarely go because I know there would definitely be leftovers hence will be dumped to trash by the next morning.

2) TARAWIH AT MOSQUE/MUSOLLA: Since you're on semester break, don't by any chances find a reason for not going to perform tarawih prayers at nearby mosque/musolla. No need to worry bout incomplete assignments or tests that usually are conducted at night or what so ever student things. It's definitely an opportunity to grab. I'm grateful that my house and the musolla is just a less 5 min walking distance. Usually around 8:20-8:25 me along with sis and bro will be walking our way there (mom arrives a little early than us cause she prefers driving) but I like taking a little walk and fresh air and maybe might burn some fat :D

3) IFTAR WITH OLD FRIENDS: this is something I like. Ramadhan totally brings out the togetherness. Alumni of smk bandar putra held an iftar at kulai. They invited me but sadly I can't go. Yeah me the nomad one, rarely go JB, not to mention lack of expenses right now. But I'm so happy that I got to attend iftar with my matriculation peeps.

well, I guess thats it..I'll be going back to mom's hometown at rembau,negeri sembilan.Will be staying there from 21 till 26 august then we'll be staying at bangi till 4th september..

iftar with kmph  facilitators. this was taken at tanjung lumpur,kuantan

All ready up heading to musolla  for its annual iftar event with the bukit istana residents 

with ateh,my gossip buddy and ex-neighbour.Had steak for iftar with her Love sharing problems with her as we have that something in common

mom's special caserol. Special request from me :)

can't take my eyes of those large prawns. this was taken at bukit istana's musolla

home made moreh. This is called scones. served with whipped creme and strawberry jam..yummy!!!

happy eid mubarak!!!

comparison between medical,science,management and engineering students

when Newton asked: How to write 4 in between 5?




1) Medicine students said: Joke!!


2) Science students said: Impossible


3) Management students said: Not found on internet


4) Engineering students said: F (IV) E

LOL

well said kak maria!!

ok this post slightly refers to my previous post, bout how to attract viewers by posting ur pretty gorgeous pictures by the hope gaining compliments such as "oh dear I love ur dress" and bla bla bla..for hijabers out there, whats your purpose on wearing hijab?to create video hijab tutorials by how lovely u wrap ur scarf?after the attention u get modelling jobs and then continue to inspire people about fashion...honestly don't kill people with fashion. People are racing just to be as fashionable as u are. there goes their savings for college or other important stuff. ok i did it again..the babbling stuff...all of u probably know maria elena the famous female hijab blogger. I first got a little 'menyampah' about how she is so into fashion stuff. but not until i got to know the scarflets, their dress up is way more daring than her. the scarflets, is a hijabers group and most of them blog about the way they style up. from my observation most of them bought their clothes from forever 21, cotton on, zara, the poplook, and it ain't that cheap I tell ya. I know its your money but like I said " don't kill people"...its ok to shop in modest. the scarflets also got the media's attention, so they were invited for special events,premier tickets to watch transformers sponsored by chevrolet, chelsea vs harimau malaya games sponsered by Naza and much more. I know it is an advantage for the media to promote by sponsoring them,coz they will write about it.(nampak permainan disitu)

I took this picture from one of the scarflets. u see how beautiful-rainbow they are

just to be honest, I dont hate u scarflets, it's ur blog u can do anything with it. Its just not fair to other bloggers out there who doesn't post about fashion but still inspires people a lot..dont push it too hard to be beautiful because whats important is inner beauty

oh ya, click here to read maria elena's latest post

how to get your blog more viewers and followers?

hi!!!!i know its 2011 already and I've been leaving this blog dusty and spider webs all over the place. ok so I have been busy with college and stuff. furthermore, too LAZY to update my blog. I mean whose gonna read this crappy blog anyway? so after blog hopping and surfing, I've found a solution!!!u wanna get more viewers?u wanna have more followers?u wanna connect more to readers apart from just being silent readers?well I have something for ya!! but firstly u gonna read this post till the end if not seriously you are gonna hate me as much as people already feel just by clicking my link. ok stop with the babbling, here are the tips:

1) THE LOOKS= firstly, u gotta have the looks man. Physically white,skinny, knows how to do the 'duck' post and of course, a cam whore!! If u're ugly th
en SCREW YOU!!no one is gonna read your blog

2)SOF= Sense Of Fashion. when u have the looks of course u wanna preserve them and cherish the beauty that God has given. so u always wanna look beautiful when u post pictures in ur blog. put up a fancy dress,nice heels and BAM!!waiting for people to say " gosh u look gorgeous in this" and that

3)MONEY!!= speaking of fashion, u gotta have money to

be fashionable. ZARA,TOPSHOP,CHANEL,LADY DIOR,PRADA I mean its not something u can earn with rm10. cuisine,usually 10% bloggers i found post about eating at stalls and cheap restaurants. the rest is all from high class dines that I can afford to go like once every two months.

4)BRAINS= last but not least. If u're studying overseas or taking critical courses, generally people will be attracted to read ur blog. if u pass ur exams with flying colors than that's an extra credit for u. if u're dumb or always flunk in exams than BOO YOU!!but face it why would bloggers wanna say that their dumb,lazypants and spoilbrat who just likes to spend their parents money?

to sum that up:

ugly but smart= less viewers

ugly but high sense of fashion= its a "so so" for viewers

ugly, smart and rich= good!!

good looking,rich,high sense of fashion and

smart= VERY DAMN GOOD

I'm pretty sure people envied her,gorgeous,loads of money(she's a Hilton duh!!) kinda beau-tante type coz she's just popular being the heir of hilton hotels

so do you have what it takes to attract viewers? I'll ask myself this question and the answer: NO!!

I mean what I'm thinking?I don't have the looks, I came from an average family, I like to buy bundle/rejected/preloved clothes and I never get dean list throughout my past semester. it's proven by how poor my english proficiency are. can I just say bye2 to blogging since i have less viewers and followers?

Enough with the drama. seriously what I wrote is just a bunch of crap. I mean do we really need to satisfy those needs just to get more viewers?just be confident of yourself and write for passion.take criticism in a positive way,live your life to the fullest, and always remember to satisfy HIM first before satisfying people. I've seen inspiring people out there blogging not to get viewers attention,but mostly they just love to write. who knows, in 10 years they'll be laughing reading what they wrote. I know I wanna do that :D

I have a list of bloggers that I wanna share with but the thing is I have to many bookmarks and now I'm confused. Maybe I'll post them later..if I remember hehe...

oh ya, we're down to 10 days before ramadhan ends, so to Muslims out there, lets embrace it cherish this month

Sempena 10 malam Ramadhan terakhir yang bakal menjelang,marilah kita tingkatkan ketaqwaan kepada Allah swt,Insya Allah. Janganlah menyibukkan diri kita dengan persiapan Aidilfitri yang melampaui batas sedangkan Ramadhan kita masih belum pasti kemenangannya. Sama2 kita renungkan prioriti kita sebagai HAMBA Allah swt,bukan hamba dunia. -sham kamikaze-

I'm back!!

hye guys!!sori da lama xupdate blog ni..and i also shocked u guys bout the last post that i recently delete..I'm gonna move it to another blog..a really special one..I'll share it with u guys later..because i think i dunno wanna jumble up my very 'personal' things here..so sekarang ni aku kat taman melawati..gombak..malam kedua ak kat sini..mse 30/6 gerak dari kuantan ke bangi..dok bangi smpi 5/7..dijangka jumaat ni pulang ke bangi semula..ahad bertolak ke melaka untuk sesi semester 3 tahun 2..jadi ak ada lagi 3 tahun kat melaka..insyaAllah akan ku genggam jua sijil degree itu hehe..ok since aku tinggal beberapa hari lagi sebelum semester baru ni aku nak share sikit aktiviti2 yang telah dilakukan sepanjang cuti ni..alhamdulillah tiada perkataan 'bosan' seperti yang ku lihat status2 kawan2 facebook..peluang jadi fasilitator kat kolej matrikulasi pahang utk pelajar program satu tahun(pst) dan program dua tahun (pdt)..membantu kakak dlm proses menyiapkan tesisnye..duduk shah alam and bangi selama 3 minggu..masa tu juga digunakan utk meng'explore' with my bro n sis..back in kuantan we received a new member of the family..paput..which is a stranded kitten with little cute eyes..enjoy playing with my neighbours dog..very playful..klo nk sidai kain dia mesti menjenguk pastu tak pasal2 barking ajak men..padahal kalau aku men ngan dia pon lari2 kiri kanan yg dibatasi ngn pagar je..tapi dia suke..kucing2 umah aku sikit pon xtakut ngn dia instead the dog is scared of the cat..weird..ok update bout those activities will be in my next post..apa yang tak ter'list' dalam ni pon akan di post

latest pic with diyana..finally dpt jumpa after 3yrs