My Dream Wedding (Berangan 1.0)

I'm writing this post since I received so many wedding invitations from friends and family for this 2 months time..yela cuti sekolah kan..this reminds me of what will it be for my turn when the time comes..I think every girl has its own dream wedding style..well as for me I do have one...

Color Theme

When I was 15, I'd always dream of having a white silverish color theme of wedding..why?because its inspired from  cerita "gol dan gincu" masa tahun tu haha...kelass kau kan ton umur 15 dah plan nak kahwin..then when I get older..or as I say when I got in the mid 20's, the color seems to not fade away from my vision of wedding..ha setia kan nak warna tu je...but it doesn't have to be exactly on my reception day..it could be worn during the solemnization or malam berinai thing kan.. another color that came in mind is mint or pastel green that is sometimes looked like blueish green too..yang penting, tak mau the striking color block thing in my dress and also no kerawang2 thing yang menampakkan kesaratan baju tersebut..its simple enough with little lace patches and beadings along it..ha and one more thing yang aku pandang dengan sangat serius ialah the dresses should not be too tight and the brides scarf should cover up the chest at all times..peduli kata mak andam kata suh masukkan tudung dalam baju tu..kita bayar dia kan so better respect la decision kita kan..andaikata tudung disingkatkan tapi make sure baju tu harus longgar..kerana hari itu kita menjadi tatapan orang..so better cover what needs to be covered

ha macam ni contoh yang lace and beads tu..

another piece that I like..lace and beads tu letak kat hujung2 je..masyaAllah I really like this color besides mint..dark purple is also on my list

kalau boleh tudung pon seboleh-bolehnya bawal or shawl..tak mau tudung ala makcik2 yang keras tu tak pon tudung mertua fizo omar itu yang berlayer-layer

Oh if you're wondering what did mean about the mint color dress..well since saya rajin google kan nah ni contoh2

loving the flowyness  of the dress..boleh berangan ala2 princess kejap

The Flow Of The Event

As I was saying, its a dream wedding, so jadi or tak jadi tu belakang cerita..I never really wanted a grand event, heavy make up that destroy the originality of my face macam camera 360 tu kan..but as for the flow that I imagine is having the solemnization during the morning at my house at kuantan or even at some mosque around. Then during night the same day we had a little malam berinai where it only involves close friends and relatives that will be held at the brides house or somewhere that is spacious so the newlyweds can do a little ballroom style dance..for me takdo lah nampak omputih kebaratan sangat gayanya..its just something that can make the wedding more eventful for me.

fulamak style woo..berangan jela aku leh wat gaya gini

Then as for the reception day, I didn't plan for a two-time reception day thing. Firstly its a total waste of time. Secondly its a waste of money. So I plan that our reception should be a one day time only. By this duit for both parties can be divided equally kan..masing2 boleh menyumbang for this event..risau ramai orang datang?apedehal sewa dewan pon boleh..it doesn't need to be a really grand ballroom kan..dewan serbaguna pon boleh..kalau creative you could turn something yang tak berapa grand tu jadi sangat comel ok..tak pon kalau buat ala2 garden pon tak de hal..lagi simple..majlis bertandang ni yang belah lelaki sebenarnya kalau tak buat pon tak pe sebenarnya just majlis sambut menantu macam buat makan2 pon tak pe..

garden wedding style..yang ni aku suka sebab nampak santai je

pelamin simple macam ni pon aku suka gak sebab lebih guest friendly..senang kalau nak amek gambar bila tetamu datang..tak perlu nak sewa pelamin bagai..less is more orang kata kan

Pernah tak dengar term "menyalang" if you don't it means macam post-wedding visits ke rumah sedara..I don't know if its some culture that my nogori relatives do but I think its a good culture to visit sedara2 kan..macam ni la..kalau adik beradik belah mama aku ada 8 orang, so pengantin baru ni kena la datang kelapan-lapan rumah ni if possible..then sedara yang menyambut ni pon biasanya akan sediakan makanan berat2..then pengantin yang wajib datang ni pon biasanya akan diringi oleh parents masing2 as well sebab nak kenal makcik2 dan pakcik2 keluarga baru ni..aku sendiri pon pernah ikut my cousin's menyalang ni...sekali jela kat rumah paklong masa kak mira and abg man baru kahwin..


Cards, catering, door gifts..etc

Well as for that, I would make it as simple as possible. As for the cards, guna recycle paper pon dah jimat dah..sebab eventually most people wouldn't keep the card and probably just throw away..so no need to spend so much money on invitation cards..catering tu sikit pon aku lom terfikir lagi haha..sebab catering ni biasanya standard je nasi minyak kan..door gifts pon as simple as possible..give something yang bermanfaat sikit..like kak mira's reception on 2009, the door gifts were a set of fork and spoon for adults and candies for children..nice kan..kalau paling biasa telur rebus jela kan..tapi kebiasaanya telur rebus orang tak makan..lagi2 aku..bila dapat simpan lama2 jadi busuk..tak ke membazir disitu.


Photo and Videography

For me, these are very important for wedding events. Aku tak kisah kalau majlis tak grand mana tapi yang penting pictures mesti nampak cool!! nampak tak aku semangat gila bab ni..mungkin kerana memang dari dulu hidup kami di'dokumentarikan since umur aku 3 tahun lagi ayah dan mama melekat dengan videocam yang besar gedabak yang kena angkat kat bahu tu..as for that, I already planned that with a friend of mine that would give me great deals on the package price... yang paling biasa kita tengok is from CST production..tak tahu lah berapa harga untuk tu kan..mampu tak mampu jela ceritanya..but I'm really impressed with their work..

ni maria elena with her husband..contoh  hasil CST yang dikagumi..oh sorry bout pic yang pecah2..I googled it 

Ok cik jemah ni berangan dah banyak sangat kan..ni kalau dah sampai masa nak kahwin aku tengok balik post ni mau tergelak dibuatnya..because kita hanya mampu merancang kan..semuanya ada dalam aturan the ALMIGHTY...